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The Power of Positive Thinking

Tuesday, July 16, 2013 2:51 PM | Anonymous member (Administrator)

Thoughts are funny things… We’ve all had days where it feels like everything is just going wrong. We think, “Why me?” and, “What did I do to deserve this?” or, “Good grief! What else could possibly happen?” And the more we let ourselves feel like a victim, the faster things seem to spiral out of control. We tend to spend all our energy focusing on the negative. But think about this: wouldn’t it serve us better to wade through all that garbage and find just one nugget of good to focus on?

 

When we focus on the positive things in our lives, we will ultimately attract and invite more positive influence. I’ve experienced this first-hand.

True story: When I was a struggling young mother of three small children, I came to a point in my life where my income wasn’t enough to pay my bills. It seemed like the harder I worked, the less time I had to focus on things that really mattered – like my family and friends – but most particularly I had no time to figure out how to make things better. I was spiraling the drain – both financially and spiritually.

 

It was a vicious cycle. Less money, more bills, more stress, work more hours, have less time to spend doing the things that make us happy… and the misery just went on and on. At the time my husband and I were running a carpet store. When we lost the store I thought my world was over. Little did I know that it was just the beginning of this crazy wonderful journey I’m still on today – because that’s exactly when I started my judgment recovery business.  

The funny thing is, looking back now I can see how impossible it would have been to start the new business if I was still wrapped up in the carpet store. It practically hit me over the head! Had I still been so completely obsessed chasing my tail on the hamster wheel, I’d never have taken the time to seriously consider something else.

 

Instead of mourning the loss of the store and feeling like I failed, I became excited about starting something new.  Instead of giving in to fear and panic, I embraced the potential for new possibilities. Once I did that it seemed like everything miraculously started falling in place. I had recognized that when one door closes, three more open. All I had to do was walk through.

I’m sure everyone has a story they can relate this to. Maybe you lost your job, or your hours got cut back? Perhaps your retirement income didn’t turn out to be the golden goose egg you thought it would be. It could be that your life or career was derailed by other unanticipated circumstances out of your control… The silver lining in any of those discouraging events is that now you’ll have time to explore other possibilities where before you didn’t have time for a spare breath.

 

Some things happen at just the right time. They seem bad, but really they can be doorways to something better. Something you would never have considered unless you were forced by some other circumstance to look for other answers. Sometimes those answers literally just land on your head.

Even with the busiest of schedules, anyone can find time to set aside to focus on making things better, if they really want to. We find time to exercise, watch TV, shop and spend time on Facebook… Why not invest a little of that time toward finding a way to make a positive change in your life? Skip a television show – there’s an hour. Spend a little mental energy on how you can create change in your life when you’re walking the dog; running the errands; watching the kids at baseball practice.

 

What’s stopping YOU?

 

Kind Regards,

Christina

 

Sierra Judgment Recovery

Comments

  • Friday, July 26, 2013 5:28 PM | Deleted user
    This is awesome Christina! This was nice and inspiring! Thank you for sharing!
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    • Thursday, December 26, 2019 2:31 PM | Anonymous member
      I become a member back in 2010 and I never started my business because of fear. With the coming year (2020) I would like to start my business. What should I do to get started?
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    • Thursday, January 16, 2020 11:09 AM | Anonymous member
      Love it
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  • Saturday, December 28, 2013 7:18 PM | Deleted user
    Christina, you are awesome!!! It is just the pick me up I needed. Just lost my Job to a layoff and it is really hard to focus on the positive. God Bless
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  • Tuesday, January 07, 2014 2:20 PM | Deleted user
    I Love the subject of positive thinking.I am by nature a worrier. I'd worry about things in my life,things I had no control over, everything. I have kept myself in my own prison because when you give into negative thoughts as fear, worry, doubt etc, you keep yourself from moving forward in life.Your stuck in your own prison.I have decided that I AM LETTING MYSELF OUT OF PRISON.I 'm not putting myself on parole..I am ALL the way out!!Giving myself a clean record.This New Year I invite all my new SJR family to let yourself out of prison. The freedom that comes from positive thinking gives you instant peace!When you turn your negative thoughts over into positive miracles start to happen in your life that you could have never imagined! It is a very conscious effort to stay on the positive road and well worth it! My favorite saying is "Thoughts become Things". Positive thought become positive things in your life just like negative thoughts become negative things.So I am on a new journey...The "SJR" journey. I am expecting this journey to be the most rewarding, fun, exciting journey in my life! Thank you for listening to me ramble :) Shelly LARA
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  • Sunday, February 25, 2024 1:15 PM | Anonymous member
    Superb commentary I can relate to! Best regards!
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